Year
End 2019
What,
already? Yes. It’s time to say goodbye to another year that was filled with
activities at home and away. Life has been pretty good. I have been busy with
community volunteering, trips, a class reunion, plays, and other events. Much
of all the activity included family members and Pete, my boyfriend. I am
thankful for all of them. A congenial family and an enjoyable male companion
are this year’s happy blessings.
In
February, much to my unhappy surprise, I sprained my knee in the Madison snow
without even falling down. I twisted my knee as I took a shortcut over a large,
packed snowbank left by a plow, and pain lasted for four and a half months. A Google
source said that a sprain will heal in a month or six weeks; even my doctor
thought so. Maybe that is the case for babies, but some old people heal
gradually. I continued with daily life as much as possible, but now I know I am
mortal. Also healed.
Pete
and I took a trip to Virginia in June. We spent four enjoyable days visiting
the homes of three of our Presidents, Jefferson, Madison and Monroe. We spent
the most time in the Jefferson environment at Monticello, and the rest of the
time at the estates of Madison and Monroe. They all lived in the mountain area
near Charlottesville,Virginia. Road Scholar provided local experts who gave
talks to our group. We also spent some time looking at the University of
Virginia, which Jefferson founded.
Another
tour took Pete and me to Minneapolis in August. We took time for an overnight
visit to Pete’s sister Phyllis and her family in northern Minnesota at the
start of the trip and some time with my daughter Elizabeth (Libby) in suburban
Minneapolis at the end of it. During the tour with Road Scholar we visited Minnehaha
Falls, the big waterfall in Minnehaha Park; the well-known Guthrie Theatre, two
art museums, and other sights. At the Guthrie we saw all the backstage things
that professional theater requires, including costumes made as needed, sets
needing assembly, and various props that filled large rooms. We saw the stage
area, too, and later we saw the performance of Guys and Dolls. And for me no trip to Minneapolis was compete
without Sunday brunch at Hell’s Kitchen with Libby.
During
the year Pete and I saw many plays. The best was Hamilton. We saw it in
Chicago in April with a group of seniors, and in Madison in November, and we
loved it. It’s the biggest play of the year, in my opinion. We saw MacBeth at American Players Theatre in
Spring Green with Pete’s family. We saw Guys
and Dolls in Minneapolis. We saw other plays in Madison, where drama seems
to flourish.
I
attended my 60-year class reunion of Sturgeon Bay High School in October. A
large crowd of classmates with spouses and dates filled the Lodge at Leatham
Smith. We enjoyed seeing people whom we had not seen in many years as well as
some we have known over time. A list of deceased class members was read; it
appears that about half of the class has left this world. I was glad to have
time to talk with many of the people who came to the reunion of the class of
1959.
Once
again this year I took several trips to Washington Island in Door County.
Daughter Sarah and I were there for the Memorial Day and Labor Day
weekends. Grandchildren Laura and Ian came
with us. I was there other times for several days at a time, enjoying the
woods, the lakeshore and the hassle-free rural environment. I stay in a cabin
at the island campground whenever I go there.
Back
in Madison I have been doing volunteer work mostly at the Madison Senior Center
and the Meadowridge branch library. Also, I exhibited some of my art work in
the Wisconsin Regional Art Program and at the senior center. The Friends of the
Madison Public Library gave me some recognition for volunteering more than ten
years.
As
mom and grandma, I enjoyed the family’s musical concerts with Ian’s school
concerts and John, Sarah and Laura’s instrumental performances. John and Sherry
gave me supper approximately once a week so I wouldn’t have to eat alone but
could enjoy their company. It’s good to have them living nearby. I flew to
Maryland for a few days with Mary and Gareth, and drove to Minneapolis (not on
tour) to be with Libby. Dori, Steve and Robbie came to Madison for holidays
when the noisy (adult) kids all talked together simultaneously and seemed to
love it. It’s very good and very talkative when the family gets together.
I
am still active at St. Dunstan’s Church. When the church went through
renovation, I stored the church’s lending library in my home basement for
several months. No borrowing happened but the books were safe and accounted for
while the church got its facelift. Did I mention that I am the church’s
librarian?
May
we all survive another year of chaotic politics with the Trump administration
and joys and concerns at home. Life is good.